Monday, September 23, 2013

Personal Story: Marie Mafuta Yanakia

                                                                                                                                                13/9/2013
Finding a sense of familiarity or belonging in a refugee settlement camp is the toughest feat for any newly arrived refugee. They have to leave their homes, friends, and a greater part of their belongings to come to an unknown place in hopes to start over in a safe environment. What refugees do after they get to a safe environment is up to them. Many refugees come to camps already mentally defeated, without the will to strive for more with this new opportunity in Kyangwali, while others fight and claw their way back to the path of a similar life they used to know or perhaps even a better one. For Marie Mafuta Yanakia the struggle to get her life back was a difficult journey on an emotional roller-coaster full of highs and very lows.

Marie Mafuta Yanakia in her garden
Marie has been a produce farmer all of her life. Back in the Democratic Republic of Congo, before she was forced to leave the country, Marie had a thriving business growing and selling all sorts of produce and animals to local markets and restaurants. She farmed her own massive garden that was able to sustain her family comfortably and was also able to buy medicine for her children and all of their necessary school supplies. Marie had a gardening group of around twenty women where they taught one another and others in their village how to farm. Each week this group pulled their money together to help less fortunate people in their community get back on their feet or to provide medicine. She was happy with the life she had and the friends she farmed with, living comfortably in the place she was born.

 However, when the conflict grew to be too much and was threatening her and her family’s lives, Marie had no choice but to leave her home, friends, and her group behind for safety away from the fighting and violence. Marie lost everything she worked her entire life for; she had to abandon her crops and animals, only taking what she could carry and what was most important to her. All to come to a settlement camp where she had no old familiar faces, no farm or home. Marie had to start over with only the small amount of things she brought with her from the DRC.

When Marie left the DRC and came to Kyangwali, the only thing she prayed for each night was for everything to get back to the way it was when she was home. She had never felt so terrified of what the future in this settlement camp would bring. Never felt so lost and alone when they dropped her, her husband, and their three children off in their empty rationed out plot of land where they had to build a new house, farm, and life. Marie feared for her family’s livelihood every day since they left the DRC. How would she take care of her children if they got sick? How would she be able to send her children to school in this foreign country without being able to supply them with their school supplies? How would they be able to make ends meet if she could not farm? These questions and others swirled in her head and only made her more anxious and fearful of her new life here.

Marie has been at Kyangwali for two years now, and in these two years Marie and her family had to struggle and fight to get a piece of the life they once had back home in the DRC. For two years she had to find the strength to carry on even during times when life seemed like it was fighting against her at every turn. But in those two short years, Marie has prevailed, being able to establish herself, her family, and their lives in this foreign country they are now beginning to call home.

Marie with some of the members of her gardening group
 Here in Kyangwali, Marie is doing what she knows best. With the support of AAH she is once again a produce farmer in the settlement camp, growing and selling onions, cabbage, beans, and eggplants; raising and selling pigs and chickens, all to the local markets and restaurants. Receiving assistance and advice from AAH workers on health and agriculture, Marie is again on the path that she once was back in the DRC. Though the life here may not be everything she had when she was home, it is still a step in the right direction to getting her life back in order. Marie has been able to form a new gardening group of seven women, (it was thirteen at one point until the other six split off to form their own group due to the success) helping one another grow their farms, build their houses, take care of each other’s children when needed, and settle here in Kyangwali.

The benefits of owning a farm goes far beyond the potential income for the family, it also benefits the family’s nutritional health, which in a new area with refugees constantly pouring in is one of the most important things in order to stay healthy. The farm has helped send her children to school with all of their necessary supplies, and whenever her children do get sick, Marie is able to run to the garden to pick produce and sell it to market. That money she makes from her vegetables helps to purchase medicine for her children in order to get them healthy again. Thanks to her produce and the nutrition it provides her family, they rarely get sick and need medicine, this goes for everyone in her gardening group as well.

All the ladies of the group help each other pick produce
in their gardens 
Marie still has a long way to go until she can get back to where her life was in the DRC, though she may not have a plot of land as large as she did before, it is enough to provide for her and her family. There are many things Marie still wishes to do here in Kyangwali with her new gardening group. So far they have not been able to collect money to help other refugees with construction of their homes or medicine to help families, this is something she is hoping to implement here in the upcoming year. However, the group is still able to make a difference and work with AAH to teach others in the community by setting an example and showing new refugees how to farm properly to get the most out of their gardens so they can be healthy and successful as well.

     Marie’s agonizing and grief-stricken story, being torn away from her home and country and moved into a foreign nation, is an all too familiar one in any refugee camp. But in all desperate and tragic situations there are always pioneers like Marie who strive for a better life for their family and community. These pioneers do whatever it takes not to have the conflict that drove them out of their homes haunt them. They do not dare let this conflict and past lives in the DRC affect their future here as they strive to take control of their new beginnings in Kyangwali.

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